Matters Of Dè Heart

  HOW I R@P£D MY HUSBAND!  🥰 My husband and I were having a fight.. So we were not talking.. He was giving me the silent treatment.. I also ignored him and we went on like that for the whole day..  After work that day.. I returned home.. Made dinner and we ate.. He went in to sleep while I stayed to watch my programs.. Later I joined him i n bed.. I couldn't sleep.. I kept turning and tossing.. I was restless.. I went to drink cold water and returned.. He was fast asleep already.. I was so horny but we were fighting so.. I had to suppress my urges..  Early morning I got up to pee. When I returned he was still sleeping but he had a strong er-ection. This made me even more ho-rny.. I looked at it for a while and wondered but this thing is mine nau.. Why am I making shakara.. That's how I slowly took it out and grabbed it in my mouth oo.. Someone that was sleeping suddenly woke up and said wat are you doing.. I didn't even answer him.. He said stoppppppp.. He said stoo...

  CONNECT WITH YOUR FAMILY When you are successful, the whole world will celebrate with you. When you fail, it is only your family that will be there. GO BACK TO YOUR FAMILY! When you have palm oil on your finger, the whole world will come to lick. If its blood it is only your Family that will heal. CELEBRATE YOUR FAMILY. If you are in the Government house, the whole world will seek you. If it is the mortuary only your family will come around you. VALUE YOUR FAMILY. When you are one year in the office, the whole world will come to celebrate. If it is one year in the cemetery, only your family will morn. REMEMBER YOUR FAMILY. When you have money to give, friends will come and enjoy. When you have bills to pay, friends will run, only your family will rally round. SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY. When you have coats of many colors, the whole world will love your presence. When you are naked only your family will stand to cover you. RESPECT YOUR FAMILY. When there is fame to share, everybo...

  WHY YOUR MAN/HUSBAND STRUGGLES TO TALK TO YOU 1. YOU COMPLAIN MORE THAN YOU COMPLIMENT  It is difficult for a man to enjoy talking with a woman who has nothing good to say, a woman who is constantly saying "You can't do anything right", "You are late", "You are difficult". In as much as you want to let him know when he does wrong, learn to praise him and appreciate him more 2. YOU CONSTANTLY MAKE IT ABOUT YOU  This keeps him from enjoying conversations with you since you turn everything to be about you, what you want, what you can't accept and what pleases only you 3. YOU WHINE ALOT If you have a negative tendency of stating how life is unfair to you, how you are always the victim, everyone is always wrong and you are always right; that is a major turn off 4. YOU DISCLOSE HIS SECRETS  When you tell your sisters, mom, friends about sensitive matters between you and him, he will keep things from you 5. YOU JUMP INTO CONCLUSIONS  Your husband wants ...

 7 THINGS YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE TILL YOU CHANGE 1 . You can never Change the way people treat you till you change the way you treat people . Matthew 7:12 (NIV), So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. 2. You can not Change your character until you change your friends. 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character." 3. You can not change what you harvest until you change what you sow. Galatians 6:7 (NIV), Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. 4. You can not change the direction of your ¹ until you change the driver. Exodus 23:2 NIV, Do not follow the crowd in doing wrong..." Your life is either driven by the crowd or by your conviction  5 . You can not change your financial situation until you Change your financial behaviour. Proverbs 21:17  (NIV), Whoever loves pleasure will become poor; whoever loves wine and olive oil will never be rich....

  TOPIC: FORMING HEALTHY HABITS TO ENRICH YOUR MARRIAGE  KEY BIBLE VERSE:Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 ESV “I still love you.” That’s the character of God.  ••• No matter what happened yesterday. No matter what was said or what was silent. No matter if forgiveness was sought after or not. His mercies are new every morning. He is always ready to forgive. Not based on your character, but because that is His character. That’s the example He set for us. He is always willing to forgive us and show us mercy. That’s the example we are to follow.  To Be Continued! God bless you as you join us tomorrow for the continuation by God's grace Remember, we love you but God loves you more, stay blessed focused and determined to enjoy a blissful marital journey

TOPIC: HABITS OF A THANKFUL HEART  KEY BIBLE VERSE: Finally, my brothers, rejoice in the Lord. To write the same things to you is no trouble to me and is safe for you. Look out for the dogs, look out for the evildoers, look out for those who mutilate the flesh. Philippians 3:1‭-‬2 ESV Reorienting Your Priorities I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. (Philippians 3:8) We suffer disappointment when we can’t get something we think we need. And while that is natural, it’s also an opportunity for us to ask: “What am I really living for?"  How we answer this question shows our true priorities. Most Christians will say that they are living for Christ. But if we honestly examine our hearts we may find that, while Christ is part of our lives, we are actually living for something else. Tim Keller defines an idol as any good thing that has become an ultimate thing—when we take something other than God and make it our reason for being....

  TOPIC: PARENTING UNDER PRESSURE KEY BIBLE VERSE: “ _ You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male servant, or his female servant, or his ox, or his donkey, or anything that is your neighbor’s.” _ Exodus 20:17 ESV Keeping Up With … When I was a kid, birthday goodie bags were filled with a few pieces of candy and some crayons. Things are different today. This became clear when I brought my son to one of his friend’s birthday parties. Piled on a table by the door were a dozen large bags containing favors for the guests. Inside my son’s bag were several large candy bars, a puzzle, and the very same toy that we had brought as a gift. I wanted to crawl into a hole and pretend the party never happened. Unfortunately, images, videos, and commentary of the party continued to circulate on social media for the next week. Each post served as a reminder of my social faux pas and made me think about how I would handle my own son’s bir...

  Key Bible Verse: Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:29‭-‬30 ESV REJOICE, RELAX & REGROUP Story It is time to go! When I heard those words, I could not wait to tell my husband. He was in physical therapy when the doctor came to his room to notify me that Mike could leave if he would consent to a few things. I did not doubt that he would agree. So, I packed up the room, went to where Mike was without seeing me and told all the therapists that Mike would be leaving today. The team scrambled together and did a surprise send-off when he was going. The smile of relief that came on his face was priceless. The tears of joy were refreshing. The doctors said that this process would be at least a year and a half, so leaving walking and off of a ventilator after eight weeks was amazing. It was a rejoicing time. One of the conditions they sent Mike hom...

  TOPIC: FORMING HEALTHY HABITS TO ENRICH YOUR MARRIAGE KEY BIBLE VERSE: Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. Proverbs 4:23 ESV The best thing I can do for my marriage is focus on God and His Word. ••• I read this analogy one time that was talking about how what was inside is what will come out. They explained it using a coffee mug. They started out by asking this question, “If you were holding a coffee mug full of coffee and someone bumped into you, causing you to spill it — Why did you spill coffee?” The answer was that you spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your mug. Had there been hot chocolate, you would have spilled hot chocolate. Whatever was in the mug, is what you would have spilled. The analogy ended with this question, “So if life comes and shakes you — What will you spill? What’s in your mug?” That is such a good analogy. If you are consistently filling your mug with good and godly things, if you are persistent about gett...

  TOPIC: HABITS OF A THANKFUL HEART KEY BIBLE VERSE: I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you soon, so that I too may be cheered by news of you. For I have no one like him, who will be genuinely concerned for your welfare. For they all seek their own interests, not those of Jesus Christ. Indeed he was ill, near to death. But God had mercy on him, and not only on him but on me also, lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow. So receive him in the Lord with all joy, and honor such men, Philippians 2:19‭-‬21‭, ‬27‭, ‬29 ESV Reflect on Your Spiritual Heroes So receive him in the Lord with all joy, and honor such men. (Philippians 2:27) Near the top of my list of spiritual heroes is a woman named Prue Crane. By the world’s standards, Prue is an ordinary woman—an unmarried, middle-aged English teacher living in Bologna, Italy. But in God’s eyes, Prue is a spiritual giant whose sincere love for Jesus Christ and passion for serving others inspires and encourages everyone who knows her. ...