This article is specially dedicated to ALL LADIES/WOMEN preparing to become Mrs This & Mrs That...
But Before you say I DO, Here are very essential facts you must look out for in that man of yours, ladies don't marry out of pressure, do not marry out of you are getting old, do not marry because your mates are rushing to do so, marry because is your time, marry because you are ready, marry because you are now emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically & financially balance to handle marriage troubles and blessings, marry because you know what you need, marry because God as said so, marry with your HEART & not with your HEAD! Marry because he's got the quality of what you desire. The list below will guide you on why you must either accept HIS PROPOSAL OR REFUSE IT! Read it, Study it & Apply Wisely!!!
1.. Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you, controlling you or treating you as a slave or maid.
2.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour but that you both mutually agreed to become one to love and respect each other.
3.. Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you.
4.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to sex at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the right mood.
5.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag boobs and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, your sag boobs or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood.
(Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper and it is also his duty to ensure he makes you look like that sweet 16 catching his fancy outside.
6.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo, he is there as a support & not just a figure head.
7.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions.
8.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry"
9.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity, any man that does this does not deserve to be in a love relationship let alone marriage and the final point for now is,
10.. Marry a man who love your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you, marry a man who loves you truly and is willing and ready to sacrifice all just to make you happy.
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