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Things You Should Give Up If You Want To Be Successful.  1. Give Up On The Unhealthy Lifestyle “Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” — Jim Rohn 2 . Give Up The Short-term Mindset “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” — Mae West 3. Give Up On Playing Small “Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone, and as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” — Marianne Williamson 4 . Give Up Your Excuses “It’s not about the cards you’re dealt, but how you play the hand.” ― Randy Pausch 5 . Give Up The Fixed Mindset “The future belongs to those who learn more skills and combine them in creative ways.” ― Robert Greene 6. Give Up Believing...

SAD, BUT TRUE LIFE FACTS!!! 1. Realize this:  No matter what you say and how you say it, SOME people will never get it.  That's not your fault! Sad, But True! 2. No matter how pure your motives are, SOMEBODY will still accuse you of ill intentions. Stay pure anyway.  Sad, But True! 3. No matter how humble you are, somebody will still consider you proud. Stay humble, anyway. Sad, But True! 4. No matter how generous you are, somebody will still call you "selfish". Remain generous, anyway. Sad, But True! 5. Sometimes some of your greatest pains will come from those you gave the most pleasure. * Sad, But True!* 6. Some of your greatest disappointments will come from those you gave your best appointments or commitments.  * Sad, But True!* 7. Sometimes some of the worst things you'd hear about yourself may come from those you speak the best of.  * Sad, But True!* 8. Not everyone in your ship is paddling in the direction of your dreamed destination. Discernment is key....

SEVEN (7) DANGEROUS PEOPLE IN ANY ASSOCIATION OR  ORGANISATION THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE DELICATELY WITH WISDOM AND  KNOWLEDGE: As a Leader, beware that at one stage or the other in your association or organization, you will find yourself dealing with the following groups of people. If you don't have wisdom to deal with them, your position and efforts are in danger. 1. THOMAS GROUP  -They walk with you but they don't really believe in you. Though God can use you in front of them, they are not easily moved they take time to believe in you. These people can delay your vision and they are also not aware they are also delaying themselves. It's a struggle and a burden to lead people who don't believe in you. 2. *JUDAS  GROUP*- They walk with you but they have issues with you when God begins to bless you. They are not happy when things of great value are given to you. In short they are jealous of your success. When elevation comes they will say we are poor in the wo...

  20 Ingredients of a Marriage Made in Heaven By  Frank Sonnenberg   6 Comments 34 Save 20 Ingredients of a Marriage Made in Heaven The most important element of a happy marriage is choosing the right person. Here are 20 other ingredients of a marriage made in heaven: Make your marriage your top priority.  There are many things vying for your attention. Know what matters most to you and put your heart into it. Agree on the BIG things.  Shared  beliefs  and  values  form the heart of every successful relationship and can ultimately determine its success. The key is to understand your spouse’s viewpoints and gain agreement on how to move forward together. Nurture trust.   Trust  is the glue that binds successful relationships. Trust is built through a series of successful experiences. If each encounter is positive, the relationship will flourish. Keep your promises.  When you break a  promise , no matter how small, you viola...

This article is specially dedicated to ALL LADIES/WOMEN preparing to become Mrs This & Mrs That. ..  But Before you say I DO, Here are very essential facts you must look out for in that man of yours, ladies don't marry out of pressure, do not marry out of you are getting old, do not marry because your mates are rushing to do so, marry because is your time, marry because you are ready, marry because you are now emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically & financially balance to handle marriage troubles and blessings, marry because you know what you need, marry because God as said so, marry with your HEART & not with your HEAD! Marry because he's got the quality of what you desire. The list below will guide you on why you must either accept HIS PROPOSAL OR REFUSE IT! Read it, Study it & Apply Wisely!!! 1.. Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you, controlling you or treating you as a slave or maid. 2.....

Do you really know why you need a Relationship? Do you sincerely have what it takes to be in a relationship? Are you ready and willing to sacrifice all to please your better half? What do you understand to be Committed to one partner only?  It will surprise you to know that many go into Relationships without really knowing what they want, many just jump into it because they see their friends doing so, many just do it for fun sake , you that's reading now, why are you in that relationship? Are you there for REAL LOVE, TO FULFILL GOD'S WORD & TO GIVE LOVE & HAPPINESS TO THAT MAN OR WOMAN or are there for SEX & FUN SAKE?  Well today, I want  to touch light on the COMMITMENT PART, many have defaulted in this role for reasons beyond them & while some people err unknowingly & some people intentionally hurt their partner just because their selfish ambitious desires wasn't granted but now what are the errors you must look at critically in your love life? COMMI...

WHAT YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT WOMEN! Many a times men get pissed off due to certain things the woman in their life does, may I announce this to you that women are will remain a weaker vessel to a man & so they will most times engage in some lifestyle that may look stupid but 95 percent of some of these reactions is out of LOVE & not of our RESENTMENT , women are most times possessive & very jealous, read through these 13 tips to be guided on why your woman may/might react in a particular way sometimes  1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean them 2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. 3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will. 4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it. 5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 6- Your wedding certificate with her...