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Relationship Nugget: 3 IMMATURE RELATIONSHIP SIGNS

   3 IMMATURE SIGNS IN MARRIAGE

[COUPLES NUGGET]

Dear sir, if you have displayed any of these 3 signs in your Relationship, is time to adjust now before it is too late to do so.

Have you as a man did any of these:

1. REJECTING FOOD WHEN THERE'S AN ISSUE
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared but you refused to eat because you are angry.
It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason.

You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on, even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. TELLING YOUR WIFE SEVERALLY THAT YOU ARE THE HEAD:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/disrespect you she still knows that you are the head.
You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN?
It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head, be a leader by example, don't force respect rather do the things that will attract respect to you from your spouse.

3. ISSUING THREATS
Beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man.

An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

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