Matters Of Dè Heart

FACTS ON BREASTS! (1.) Men have nipples and breasts because all fetuses are female at first. Every fetus starts as female, and it isn't until six weeks that testosterone starts to take hold. But even before that six-week mark, nipples and breasts are already part of the body. (2.) The largest bra size is an L, and the smallest is a AAA. (3.) Women have full breasts always. Other primates have full breasts only when they're breastfeeding, and then, they quickly go back to normal. (4.) Before the advent of Bras, ancient Roman women wrapped bandages around themselves to keep their boobs in place while they worked out. (5.) Breastfeeding changes the way a mother's brain works! It makes the mother more attentive to her own child's crying. (6.) More than 4million new bras are produced everyday. (7.) A 2013 study found that men who prefer large breasts are less financially secure. And when they are hungry or want children, they still prefer larger breasts. (8.) The study menti...

13 DANGEROUS THINGS WIVES DO 1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court. 2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom. 3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself. 4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him. 5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home. 6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. On...

PARENTING TIPS! ~  CHILDREN UPBRINGING A child is someone who is not an adult and so he/she is strongly influenced by the ideas and attitudes of a particular time or person.. The word CHILDREN means: COURAGE/CONSENT:  Its very important as a parent or guardian to always seek your child's opinion especially in things that concerns them.. Sometimes let them take certain decisions in d family..ask them what they want for breakfast,lunch,dinner..If they make choices that you can't keep up to find a way to convince them to buy your own opinion..NEVER FORCE AN OPINION ON A CHILD CONVINCE THEM THAT YOUR OWN OPINION IS THE BEST..for instance.. Jim's classmate mark had a toy car and a wrist watch as a present 🎁 for Christmas..Mark showed Jim his present them Jim's started requesting for his own Christmas present..meanwhile Jim parents can not afford it.. As a parents what will you do?? Listen to this Jim:dad Mark's daddy got him a present for Christmas I want a present too ...

“A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.”   - Pearl S. Buck When two people get married, it means they are making a big commitment. It means they should stay with each other through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, till death do them part.  Getting into a marriage relationship is the sign of the fullness of their deep romantic love for each other. Yet, their love for each other is tested in the course of time. First, there would be the adjustment period. All couples go through that. There is a saying that you only get to know the person if both of you are living under one roof. The routine of everyday life brings unrealistic expectations. Marital disenchantment comes in and it is expressed shortly just after the honeymoon fever wears off.  This is the time when imperfections can be seen. Shortcomings can be blown out of proportions. Some eccentric behavior which you found “c...

  THERE'S NO  PERFECT MAN OR WOMAN! God, give me a perfect spouse to marry. That is a wrong prayer. One of the reason for delay in marriage is Looking for a perfect spouse. God does not have any perfect sons or daughter to give you. There is no perfect person. Even you are not perfect and me is not perfect as well. In other word, some people came to Jesus and address Him as a ' a good man or a perfect nan' Then Jesus cautioned them that the only perfect person is God in heaven. Jesus himself did not claimed perfect though he is a perfect man but when he was on earth as a man, he did not claimed to be perfect. AS LONG YOU ARE A MAN, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT. you are abound to make mistakes sometimes but not everytimes. In marriage/relationship, God did not have any perfect person to give you. He gives you an imperfect person for you to make him or her perfect to your taste. Stop looking at the imperfect area of your spouse and best with it. Rom. ,15= 1-3 says we should bear impe...

  FACTS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS 1. Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you are not around. 2. Cheating does not mean you have to kiss, meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so that your partner will not see them, you are already there. 3. If a man is crazy about you, pray he does not get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets. 4. First love may not die, but true love can bury it. 5. If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then I know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU. 6. A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman's beautiful character attracts a man. 7. Never you fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready. 8. A blessed water is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly poor man is far much better than an angry rich man in marriage. 9. I...

A MAN WHO HAS SENSE - 13 SIGNS TO LOOK OUT FOR IN A POTENTIAL HUSBAND 1.. Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you. 2..  Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour. 3.. Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you. 4.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to sex at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood. 5.. Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag boobs and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, your sag boobs or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood. (Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.) 6.. Marry a man who has...

  POWERFUL QUOTES TO INSPIRE YOU ! 1. Dr. Ben Carson said, "I struggled academically throughout elementary school yet became the best neurosurgeon in the world in 1987." LESSON: Struggling is a sign that you are on a verge of success. Don't quit yet. 2. Oprah Winfrey said, "I was raped at the age of 9 yet I am one of the most influential women in the World." LESSON: Don't let your past decide your future. 3. Bill Gates said, "I didn't even complete my university education but became the world's richest man." LESSON: School does not make you rich. School is only supposed to polish what will make you rich, not make you rich. 4. Joyce Meyer said & I quote, "I was sexually, mentally, emotionally and verbally abused by my father as far back as I can remember, until I left home at the age of eighteen, yet I am one of the most influential preachers in the world." LESSON: Let your past push you, not define or limit you. 5. Christiano ...

    3 IMMATURE SIGNS IN MARRIAGE [COUPLES NUGGET] Dear sir, if you have displayed any of these 3 signs in your Relationship, is time to adjust now before it is too late to do so. Have you as a man did any of these: 1. REJECTING FOOD WHEN THERE'S AN ISSUE Mr husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared but you refused to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on, even though some women can be really troublesome. 2. TELLING YOUR WIFE SEVERALLY THAT YOU ARE THE HEAD: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be fi...

  10 TRUTHS: WHAT MAKES RELATIONSHIP GROW! Relationships grows when:👇👇👇 1.There are no secrets between two people 2.There is mutual understanding. Always understand the reason behind your partners action. If its not clear ask questions for clarification. So as not to feel offended 3.When both party appreciate one. Say thank you, love you words often. Etc 4. when both party obey the law of give and take. If only one person gives all the time the person might feel drained or otherwise. We should learn to reciprocate give to each other don't allow it to be one-sided. Call and text each other 5.When you spend quality time together via phone calls, been present physically and emotionally. When we give too much space love might begin to die a natural death so rekindle that fire of love with one another again. 6.When we work as a team to fulfil our dreams together. It's not only your dream that matters always consider your partners dream. Ask questions like what can we do to move f...

  TOP 9 MARRIAGE SECRETS Must Read For Everyone:- 9 BIG MARRIAGE SECRETS... No matter the level of your Relationship now, knowing these marriage secrets will expose and enlighten you more. Secret 1: Everyone you marry has a weakness. No spouse is perfect, the one who comes in all shades of perfection is the one who is alive in your spouse, and that person is God. So if you focus on your spouse's weaknesses you will never get the best out of his or her strength. See, the couples that last are the ones who magnify each others strength, rather than the weaknesses. Secret 2: Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future you are building together. Secret 3: Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone...