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Relationship Gist: QUALITIES TO LOOK OUT FOR BEFORE YOU SAY I DO

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QUALITIES TO LOOK OUT FOR IN A MAN BEFORE MARRIAGE

H - Honour 
Marry a Man who Respects and honours you as the most important Woman in his life.

U ~ Understanding
Marry a Man who can pay the price to Understand You, not one who tolerates you and is ashamed of you!

S ~ Support
Marry a Man who believes in you so much and supports you to become the Best in all that you do. Avoid marrying a Man who envies you and is afraid of you being better than him in life! God created the Woman to be a HELPER to the Man, not a liability!

B ~ Build
Marry a Man who has capacity to build up your faith, character, talent, career and self esteem, not one who tears you down with unnecessary criticisms and does not see any thing good in you!
Don't marry any Man who feels he is doing you a favour by getting married to you.
There is a big difference between *Will you Marry Me?* and *NNE, I want to marry You!*
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A ~ Adorn
To adorn means to decorate, to crown you as his Queen, to beautify and to coronate.
Don't marry a stingy Man who cannot spend his time and money to invest in you and to beautify you as a person.
If a Man cannot adorn you, then he definitely cannot adore you in Marriage!

N ~ NOURISHMENT

Don't marry any Man who does not nourish your Spirit, Soul and Body.
Nourishment is the ability to meet you sorrowful and moody and make you joyful and laughing again!
It is the capacity to provide your daily needs, emotionally, physically, Spiritually, financially, intellectually, Socially, etc without complaining and without insulting you as a Woman!

D ~ DEFEND
Marry a Man who can defend you in public even when you are wrong! Avoid any Man who ridicules and insults you at will especially in the presence of others. That's a sign of a Man who is ashamed of you.
When a Man truly loves you, He defends you and secures you even from the insults of his friends and family!

These are qualities you should look out for in a Man for Marriage, not the size of his pocket, his mansion, his fleet of cars or the size of his Manhood!

May God grant you SENSE to apply in Jesus name!

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