Matters Of Dè Heart

  TEN (10) SIGNS THAT HE’S NOT THE MAN FOR YOU! If these signs ring a bell, it’s best to stay away! Ladies, we know the conundrum of it all. You’re told to never settle for a man who isn’t worthy of your time. But you’re also taught to be compassionate and patient when it comes to relationships. You’re told that relationships will always take hard work and sacrifice, but where do you draw the line? How do you know when a man is actually worth fighting for, or if he’s just a lost cause? How do you know when to walk away from a loser, and move on to a better prospect? Don’t worry. All you need to do is to heed the signs and you’ll be alright. If you want to eventually find success in your love life, then you just have to make sure you find a man who is actually worth making an effort for. Rid yourself from the emotional stresses that come with dating toxic men. It’s easy to spot these kinds of men. You can see them coming from a mile away if you just happen to know wha...

  12 HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE! 1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband.   Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading. 2. Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score. Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work. 3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage. 4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is that someone is taking good care of them.  The grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it re...

18 MARRIAGE TIPS 18 MARRIAGE TIPS 1. When you are taken you will be very attractive to others. Learn to keep boundaries 2. Every marriage has its challenges, the secret is to use those challenges to grow together 3. You may be ready for marriage but if you marry someone who is not, you will be greatly frustrated. Don't be loving the wrong person the right way 4. There is more to life than marriage, pursue your individual purpose even as you do life as a team 5. When you see you two as one, you will not see each other as competition 6. Find activities to do together as a couple. Love is built on activity 7. Be careful who you listen to. Some people are not happy to be in their marriage or in their singlehood and don't want you to be happy in your marriage 8. Marriage has different seasons. The together season, the conflict season where you both try to find your space in it and conflicts often arise, the trial season where you two will face reasons to quit and the stronger togeth...

 🌀 POWERFUL TOP 26 LIFE PRINCIPLES/LESSONS           A         ✍🏽       ACCEPT       Accept others for       who they are and       for the choices they       have made even if       you have difficulty       understanding their       beliefs, motives       or actions.           B         ✍🏽       BREAK AWAY       Break away from       everything that       stands in the way       of what you hope       to accomplish       with your life.           C  ...

6 BOUNDARIES EVERY RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD HAVE I once talked to a Young Man, it wasn't planned,  his fiancée had come visiting so they'd discuss their wedding plans, they lost track of time, soon it was too late for her to go home, they decided she should spend the night, One thing led to another, you know the rest. Relationships come with a temptation of their own, especially if it's true love, then there's always Eros lurking in there somewhere naturally. We can't afford to be careless as Christians who want to stay away from sexual Sin even as we head toward the altar with our beloved and betrothed. Here are some boundaries to set in a Relationship to help stay sexually pure and combat the normal urges that threaten to wreck our Christian faith and testimony if left unchecked. 1) Avoid Over/Self Confidence . Never forget that it is blood that flows through you.  Not olive oil. Know that you have a limit beyond which you will fall. Know your limit. You know that ord...

ST RICTLY FOR LADIES QUALITIES TO LOOK OUT FOR IN A MAN BEFORE MARRIAGE H - Honour   Marry a Man who Respects and honours you as the most important Woman in his life. U ~ Understanding Marry a Man who can pay the price to Understand You, not one who tolerates you and is ashamed of you! S ~ Support Marry a Man who believes in you so much and supports you to become the Best in all that you do. Avoid marrying a Man who envies you and is afraid of you being better than him in life! God created the Woman to be a HELPER to the Man, not a liability! B ~ Build Marry a Man who has capacity to build up your faith, character, talent, career and self esteem, not one who tears you down with unnecessary criticisms and does not see any thing good in you! Don't marry any Man who feels he is doing you a favour by getting married to you. There is a big difference between *Will you Marry Me?* and *NNE, I want to marry You!* 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 A ~ Adorn To adorn means to decorate, to crown you as his Que...

  WHAT TO DO WHEN AN EX WANTS YOU BACK EVEN WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED #For everyone: Despite being married, some spouses may have to deal with a haunting past. One of such scenarios is the resurgence of an EX who wouldn't stop at nothing to having a former lover back. Over the years like in a Nollywood romantic movie, for reasons best known to them, an ex resurges from nowhere after long years of parting, wanting their former lover back into a love relationship even when they know that the former lover is now married to someone else. Many of such exs come back with lots of promises and sometimes benefits. Desperate, and when not successful through the gentleman's way, they may resort to nasty ways such as: 1. Emotional blackmail: This is when although married and the ex resurged and invited you to a hotel room because he probably would have planted a camera or recording device to indict you through an implicating discussion bordering on your past. And so they threaten to get the rec...

  TOP 10 MPORTANT SECRETS ABOUT MARRIAGE! Secret 1 Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you  focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength. Secret 2 Everyone has a dark history . No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future. Secret 3 Every marriage has its own challenges . Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there. Secret 4 Every marriage has different levels of success . Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will b...