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Things You Should Give Up If You Want To Be Successful.  1. Give Up On The Unhealthy Lifestyle “Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.” — Jim Rohn 2 . Give Up The Short-term Mindset “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” — Mae West 3. Give Up On Playing Small “Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone, and as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” — Marianne Williamson 4 . Give Up Your Excuses “It’s not about the cards you’re dealt, but how you play the hand.” ― Randy Pausch 5 . Give Up The Fixed Mindset “The future belongs to those who learn more skills and combine them in creative ways.” ― Robert Greene 6. Give Up Believing...

SAD, BUT TRUE LIFE FACTS!!! 1. Realize this:  No matter what you say and how you say it, SOME people will never get it.  That's not your fault! Sad, But True! 2. No matter how pure your motives are, SOMEBODY will still accuse you of ill intentions. Stay pure anyway.  Sad, But True! 3. No matter how humble you are, somebody will still consider you proud. Stay humble, anyway. Sad, But True! 4. No matter how generous you are, somebody will still call you "selfish". Remain generous, anyway. Sad, But True! 5. Sometimes some of your greatest pains will come from those you gave the most pleasure. * Sad, But True!* 6. Some of your greatest disappointments will come from those you gave your best appointments or commitments.  * Sad, But True!* 7. Sometimes some of the worst things you'd hear about yourself may come from those you speak the best of.  * Sad, But True!* 8. Not everyone in your ship is paddling in the direction of your dreamed destination. Discernment is key....

SEVEN (7) DANGEROUS PEOPLE IN ANY ASSOCIATION OR  ORGANISATION THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE DELICATELY WITH WISDOM AND  KNOWLEDGE: As a Leader, beware that at one stage or the other in your association or organization, you will find yourself dealing with the following groups of people. If you don't have wisdom to deal with them, your position and efforts are in danger. 1. THOMAS GROUP  -They walk with you but they don't really believe in you. Though God can use you in front of them, they are not easily moved they take time to believe in you. These people can delay your vision and they are also not aware they are also delaying themselves. It's a struggle and a burden to lead people who don't believe in you. 2. *JUDAS  GROUP*- They walk with you but they have issues with you when God begins to bless you. They are not happy when things of great value are given to you. In short they are jealous of your success. When elevation comes they will say we are poor in the wo...

  20 Ingredients of a Marriage Made in Heaven By  Frank Sonnenberg   6 Comments 34 Save 20 Ingredients of a Marriage Made in Heaven The most important element of a happy marriage is choosing the right person. Here are 20 other ingredients of a marriage made in heaven: Make your marriage your top priority.  There are many things vying for your attention. Know what matters most to you and put your heart into it. Agree on the BIG things.  Shared  beliefs  and  values  form the heart of every successful relationship and can ultimately determine its success. The key is to understand your spouse’s viewpoints and gain agreement on how to move forward together. Nurture trust.   Trust  is the glue that binds successful relationships. Trust is built through a series of successful experiences. If each encounter is positive, the relationship will flourish. Keep your promises.  When you break a  promise , no matter how small, you viola...

This article is specially dedicated to ALL LADIES/WOMEN preparing to become Mrs This & Mrs That. ..  But Before you say I DO, Here are very essential facts you must look out for in that man of yours, ladies don't marry out of pressure, do not marry out of you are getting old, do not marry because your mates are rushing to do so, marry because is your time, marry because you are ready, marry because you are now emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically & financially balance to handle marriage troubles and blessings, marry because you know what you need, marry because God as said so, marry with your HEART & not with your HEAD! Marry because he's got the quality of what you desire. The list below will guide you on why you must either accept HIS PROPOSAL OR REFUSE IT! Read it, Study it & Apply Wisely!!! 1.. Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you, controlling you or treating you as a slave or maid. 2.....

Do you really know why you need a Relationship? Do you sincerely have what it takes to be in a relationship? Are you ready and willing to sacrifice all to please your better half? What do you understand to be Committed to one partner only?  It will surprise you to know that many go into Relationships without really knowing what they want, many just jump into it because they see their friends doing so, many just do it for fun sake , you that's reading now, why are you in that relationship? Are you there for REAL LOVE, TO FULFILL GOD'S WORD & TO GIVE LOVE & HAPPINESS TO THAT MAN OR WOMAN or are there for SEX & FUN SAKE?  Well today, I want  to touch light on the COMMITMENT PART, many have defaulted in this role for reasons beyond them & while some people err unknowingly & some people intentionally hurt their partner just because their selfish ambitious desires wasn't granted but now what are the errors you must look at critically in your love life? COMMI...

WHAT YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT WOMEN! Many a times men get pissed off due to certain things the woman in their life does, may I announce this to you that women are will remain a weaker vessel to a man & so they will most times engage in some lifestyle that may look stupid but 95 percent of some of these reactions is out of LOVE & not of our RESENTMENT , women are most times possessive & very jealous, read through these 13 tips to be guided on why your woman may/might react in a particular way sometimes  1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean them 2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. 3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will. 4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it. 5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 6- Your wedding certificate with her...

  THE ROLE OF HEALTHY SEXLIFE IN KEEPING A HEALTHY MARRIAGE TIES 👉🏼Do you know that over 90% of marital issues sprouts out of the inability of one of the couples to perform to expectation at the warfront in the inner room? 👉🏼 Do you know that most men you see out there are having BIG issues in the inner room due to incompetence in taking their partner to the promised Land of ORGASM ? 👉🏼 Let's believe you know that most women will marry a hard-working poor man, who can wonderfully perform @ the inner room than a rich lazy man who can't even successfully go a round!!! 👉🏼 Some men don't even know that women gets to orgasm stage, he felt, "I av done 5minutes mo ti try mio le wa ku"* ( I have tried I can't kill my self) Bros do you know you are hurting this woman and depriving her a huge pleasure she deserves! 👉🏼 Some women have never experienced orgasm, they don't even know how it feels, and they are married, having sex 4× in a week, your husband is ...

This article is a Must read for All Men & Women! Alot of men really do not know why the woman in their life behave the way they do, you try everything in your capacity to please your partner but still she is not please, read through these 13 Facts, you will see the reason why your woman is acting that way. 1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean. 2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. 3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will. 4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it. 5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit" 7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. 8- A woman hardly forget things, she...

 

Hard Facts: Why Do Men Love Sex So Much? Women find it hard to understand why men love sex so much, They want to help you, they want sex. They say they love you, they want sex. You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex. They want to borrow you money. They want sex. They want to give you a job. They want sex. They want to pass you. They want sex. First of all You need to understand the system of men. Men are naturally created that way, Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an Erection? Do you know that the penis has a mind of his own?. A man can be sleeping,once you start rubbing the penis, it stands even when the man is asleep. Have you asked yourself why men are never on any periods? Cramps or bad moods. That's how God created Men. A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex, wink at him, he's already seeing you naked. wave at a man walking with his wife, he will lose focus. That's why churches don't allow la...

  TOUGH LESSONS THAT MAKE OR MAR YOU!!! Always cultivate the habit of solving problems The sharp point of a nail was facing upwards, Kombo saw it and avoided it instead of removing it. He whispered to himself that it didn't concern him. The next day, Kombo's new client wouldn't show up for the deal he was to sign with him. This deal meant everything for Kombo because it was worth millions.  Kombo had already promised his mother a car, his siblings 50k each and made arrangements for a new apartment immediately this deal is signed. But the client wouldn't show up. When Kombo called the client, he was in hospital attending to his only son who had stepped on the sharp point of a rusted nail.  The son had stepped out of the car to buy something on the roadside when he stepped on the nail and incidentally it was the the nail that Kombo had refused to remove when he saw it dangerously positioned. Kombo regretted not removing the nail because he thought it didn't concern hi...

10 HARD RELATIONSHIP FACTS!!!  Some things are meant to be personal and should never be revealed to another person irrespective of how much you trust them. Your husband and family affairs should not be mentioned outside, no matter the problem facing you in your family try to sort it out rather than telling it to every you come in contact with. Some people are in fond of this, they reveal all their partner's secrets, work details and issues to an outsiders......... 1. Don’t tell anyone how weak, lazy or how good your partner is in bed. Some couple is guilty of this act, they divulge every detail of intimate life to their friends who have no business or right to know about it. Stop doing this if you are guilty of it or they might use it one day against you. 2. Marriage has up and down moments, there are times things will be going fine and suddenly it looks like everything has crashed. Never reveal any marital crisis, problem or challenges to an outsider. 3. Don’t tell people how ofte...

  10 Things a Real Man Does When He’s in a Relationship David K. William David is a publisher and entrepreneur who tries to help professionals grow their business and careers, and gives advice for entrepreneurs.  Read full profile Share Pin it Tweet Share Email Some women feel a “Real Man” doesn’t exist—that he is impossible to find. Other women do not want someone like him. On the other hand, some men think they are the very definition of a “Real Man.” Other men feel there is no such thing. One thing is true, though: Those men who think they are the very definition of a “Real Man” and those who think they are not are both very often  wrong . If you want to know if you are a real man or are in a relationship with a real man, watch the actions. A real man behaves so different from the selfish frat boy types you see everywhere that you can’t fail to notice the difference. He is a gentleman—good for more than just the first few months. Importantly, a real man does things so ...