AS A WOMAN YOU CAN MESS UP YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOU DO THE FOLLOWING;
1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:
You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will happen. A Lot of women have done this and end up regretting it.
2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it.
3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:
“I am married I can relax, after all, who is looking at me.?” He married you Slim, sexy and trendy. Next thing you become obsessed, dirty and shabbily dressed, Aunty you are looking for trouble & you must not open the door the devil is trying to force his way in, change before he begins to look outside.
4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND SEX BECAUSE OF MISUNDERSTANDING:
You are a career woman; You are an overly religious woman… Hmmm! You feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His Secretary, colleagues and girls in the church are seducing and begging him to come to them but you have padlocked your body coz of a misunderstanding, ma stop dancing to the tune the devil is playing for you because you may regret later.
5) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR HIS NEEDS:
“My dear friend, please be my eye as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids”. By the time you are back, your dear friend has so really helped you by sleeping with your husband and expecting a new baby as continuation from where you stopped.
If at all she has not eloped with your man, leaving your children all alone.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active friend, if you must travel ensure you keep constant taps on your man & never go on a long vacation or trips to avoid story that touches later
6) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:
Your maid is the one that cooks, cleans the house, cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid. All you do is shout and place orders. Not bad! But if your husband feels more love and care from the maid, sister that maid won’t struggle to snatch your husband. You are the one graciously giving him to her and those that need him.
7) EMPLOYING A FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID:
She is fully grown up and well endowed back and front very tantalizing. She dresses skimpily and sexily like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake! You better send her away now or live to regret the aftermath story.
8) EMPLOYING A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU:
Employing a house girl more beautiful than you is a major technical mistake most women make. This means you are using your money to employ a rival for yourself. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid. They act dumb like maids to you for the time being but when your husband starts sleeping with them, you will be shocked they are more agile than you when they start fighting you.
9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND:
Your husband is growing with ideas and you contribute nothing than sitting down at home to eat. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman to a Yuppy cute man. Your husband is on Twitter, Facebook, Whatsapp, Skype etc; the only thing you know about mobile phone is receiving and making calls. Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He’s talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables only. He will see you so backwards, local and dumb. Upgrade please!
10) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD:
A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hand of God regularly. Don’t make such mistakes of thinking you are in charge of your husband and marriage and you can handle things. Be prayerful, hand over your family to God daily. May you never labour in vain and another reaps where you have sown!
11) FIGHTING YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW CARELESSLY:
You may fight your Mother in-law dirty and think you have won especially if she’s innocent, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years before you came; may be before you were born.
Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts.
If you are a GOOD wife you are already a priority and number one person in the life of your HUSBAND; But don't take advantage of his love for you and make him his mum's enemy!
The mother and son issue is a very delicate issue; when you sense something fishy first talk to God before talking to your husband about it; REMEMBER, don’t come in with the intention to separate mother and son; if she doesn't wish you well for any reason USE THE WEAPON OF PRAYER!
12) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
When you tell your friends about your sex life and how your husband rocks you, you are indirectly telling them to go have a feel of him. They can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. They may even know your Husband’s “turn on” and use it against him then grab your husband.
Most women have carelessly lost their husbands as they boast to their friends “my husband is too sexually demanding, he is an expert when it comes to sex, he is a horse, he almost kills me in bed, he has a horse size” etc… Your friends will pick information like this and cover things up where you have been failing.
13) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:
It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will hurt you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum unless his mum is so god fearing, honest and impartial.
14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND:
Many wives abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive they transfer all affection to their kids. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby in between themselves making the man feel lost and the bond divided. No warm hugs, caress etc. Ahaaaa madam you are making a grave mistake, the Bible explicitly says, Let NO MAN PUT ASUNDER WHAT GOD HAS JOIN TOGETHER, if you let your kids put you and your husband apart, there's a time bomb ticking to explode soon, cover your tracks and adjust now before it booooooms on your face
15) THINKING YOU CAN USE SEX TO MANIPULATE HIM TO DO WHAT HE DOSEN'T WANT TO DO;
As married spouses, sex is supposed to bind you both together, it is supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention.
Some women have now been bewitched either by NOLLYWOOD MOVIES or wrong friends to turn sex to a tool of manipulating funds from their husbands;
Some use it for trade by barter.
Some wives will suddenly become commanders when it's time for intimacy; they use this opportunity to order the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” “How about that money I asked you to give me?” Etc…this is not good!
The beauty of a woman is in her ability to INTERCEDE, to SUBMIT AND TO LOVE HER HUSBAND! ~ Proverbs 31:30
May God baptize OUR MARRIED WOMEN with the spirit of wisdom for success in marriage and relationship in the Name of Jesus!
Amen
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