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Dating & Marriage Matters: Confusion in Courtship, Continue or Quit it!

 CONFUSION IN COURTSHIP: TO CONTINUE OR TO QUIT?


Every God ordained courtship will face challenges enough to make you quit! The devil knows once you marry right, he is in soup so he will do everything in his power to break your focus and marry someone else!


Are you confused in your courtship? Why do you want to call it quits? Because of any of the following reasons?


1. BOTH OF YOU ARE AS

Some singles are 100 percent sure they heard God till they did genotype test and discover they are both AS and get confused. A lot end the relationship! If you are really sure you heard God not your head, tell God to change your genotype to AA or have the faith none of your kids will be SS. I see godly, faith filled AS couples have healthy children all the time. Some have their genotypes changed to AA by God before their wedding date. Some never have SS children. If you are very fearful and lack faith, then you didn't hear God, end the relationship!


2. NO PARENTAL CONSENT

The devil can use anybody to stop your wedding including your parents. That is why you must spend lots of time praying together instead of having sex. Ask God to speak to and convince your parents and He will. You don't have to end your relationship because your parents are putting pressure on you to marry someone else. If you are sure your partner is the one, pray, stand your ground till you win the battle!


3. FINANCIAL MISFORTUNE

Everything is going smoothly till you are planning for wedding and mysteriously, your finances went below zero! You don't need to call it quit. Both of you should join forces together and pray till that yoke is broken!


4. THEIR HORRIBLE PAST

If you truly, really heard God, their past should be no big deal even if she has once been a whore with multiple abortions or he was once an armed robber or cocaine addict. If you can't accept their past, love their present and believe in their future, end the relationship, you didn't hear God!


5. THEY WANT TO QUIT!

Your partner may come under attack and wants to quit the relationship for no sane reason whatsoever. You don't need to follow that line. They are not in their right senses. If you are very sure you heard God and they are God's will for you, stand your ground, pray, seriously intercede for them till they come to their right senses and marry you properly.


6. YOUR EX SHOWS UP

And says you are the one for them. Why did they quit the relationship in the first place? Didn't they hear God before proposing and quitting? Shun the distraction and focus on your fiance/fiancee, it is the distraction of the devil to make you lose your life partner.


7. THEY ALWAYS DEMAND FOR SEX

Sit them down and let them know you won't have sex till marriage. Honestly discuss how long you can "hold body" and plan your wedding accordingly. If your courtship has no expiry date, you are both in school and still have a long long way to go yet he keeps demanding for sex, and won't take No, END THE RELATIONSHIP!


These are some of the reasons people run away from their God ordained partner and marry someone else. You don't have to quit that courtship if it is God's will. Just carry God along! Intercede for your partner. Both of you should pray together and never quit till you overcome your battles.


However, never beg anyone to stay in a relationship with you. If they want to go please, let them. God will never force or beg anyone to stay in His will. He will rather pick someone else. He has a better partner for you.


If they keep threatening to end the relationship, please, let them. Someone who appreciates, celebrates and honour you will come your way in due time.


May your God ordained relationship be super successful!

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