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Relationship Hints: HOW TO TEST LOVE

RELATIONSHIP GIST: TEST THE LOVE!

When things are going well for you, anyone can claim to love you.

Therefore, you have to subject every love to test to determine their authenticity.

How do you test love?
1. Subject it to the test of sacrifice 

Sacrifice is the ultimate test of love. Sacrifice means to deny yourself of something, to let go of something valuable.

✅ How much is the person willing to sacrifice for you? Can he or she deny himself or herself of something valuable for your sake? 

✅ When you are not able to provide for her financially as a result of being broke, will the love still be there?

✅ When you lose your job, will she still be there for you? 

 ✅ When you are down health wise, will the love still be there?

✅ When he asks you for sex and you decline because you believe in no sex till marriage, will he still continue with you? 

✅ When you find yourself in a very difficult situation, can he or she be there for you especially when they have the ability and capacity to help?

 2. Subject it to the test of time

✅ He says he loves you with all his heart, you are his morning star, sunshine, sugar in the tea, butter in the bread and his one and only woman, there's no problem. Give it time.

✅ She says she loves you, you are her world and you mean everything to her. Without you she cannot live nor survive. You are her oxygen and life-force. There is no problem. Give it time.

Subject it to the test of time. Time is a revealer. With time things will come to light.

Reno omokri once said, "No mask can be worn forever. Give people time. Their mask will fall. Until then, don't marry or do business with them. Stay loving, but be alert."

Don't rush things. Give it time. Time is a revealer. Time will reveal if the love is real or not, with time you will come to know if the person is saying the truth or lying. Love perseveres and love is long-suffering. Stay loving, but be alert

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